Last year I shared a list of wisdoms I’ve learned over the years on 32.
This year has been a crazy, wild ride. Between selling our beautiful home, moving during a blizzard, traveling a thousand miles to a new home in an unknown location, meeting new people, new jobs, new living situations, and growing a life.
I’m continuously grateful for how far I’ve come. I’ve shared some of my past wisdoms as well as new ones.
1- Make room in your heart for the unimaginable. Always believe in miracles.
2- Do what scares you. I say this all the time. I’ve longed to speak on a special needs platform and finally submitted a proposal on a whim. Stay tuned.
3- Don’t let the bad outweigh the good.
4- Change is good! Just look on the bright side of the future.
5- Life is really too short and precious. Never take anything for granted.
6- Take pictures. Always. Be notorious for random ones. They’re the best.
7- Never stress on the tiniest stuff. Let it go and see what kind of magic returns in its place.
8- It’s okay to have emotions and be vulnerable. Never bottle them up and always remember it’s okay to cry.
9- Stop comparing yourself to others. You are who you are and always have been. Just believe it.
10- Do take care of your mental health.
11- Date night in doesn’t have to be boring. Be creative. Order Hello Fresh in, cook it together and put on a movie while you eat.
12- Keep exploring and see what the world has to offer. While this might be on hold for a while, more research and saving for us!
13- Do check out the local restaurants. If you’re a fun foodie like me, I’m always checking out the new flavor in town! And no, fast food chains don’t count.
14- Technology is amazing. Keep in touch with your friends and family near and far. Always keep them close to your heart.
15- Do take social media breaks. In fact, take several.
16- Be passionate about something bigger than yourself. It inspires growth.
17- Know that there is always light out of the darkness. Whatever rock bottom you hit, the top is just waiting for you to shine. When the time is right.
18- I truly believe everything happens for a reason. It will always work out because it’s meant to be. When it doesn’t, know that there’s always something bigger for you, just need to close the door for the next one to open.
19- Always remind yourself how far you’ve come. Be proud of the fact that you’re taking the path that was paved for you.
20- Please floss. Daily.
21- Never let grief take over and always choose hope.
22- Let mean people be mean. Life has a way of bringing them into your life to challenge you and make you a better person out of it.
23- Always trust your dog when it doesn’t like a person. For real.
24- Kindness alway goes a long way. Treat others how you would want to be treated.
25- Don’t let your disability define who you are as a person – Even though it may seem like denying the power and overwhelming significance of the experiences in my life, you’re not insulting yourself, not weak, not asking for sympathy. You’re you. See the person first, disability second.
26- Aspire to inspire others. Whether it’s sharing your story or smiling for no reason.
27- Trust your gut.
28- Keep chasing that dream of yours and don’t be afraid to share it. Here’s mine. I always aspire to keep auditioning and one day model for Sports Illustrated. It will be on hold for quite some time. Until then, keep reaching for the stars.
29- Be picky about vibes and energy you surround yourself with. You owe yourself that much.
30- Sarcasm and cursing is always okay in my book. Keep being you.
31- Keep smiling. I mean it. It’s always a good day when you see others smile.
32- You are not required to house someone else’s feelings. Take it easy on yourself.
33- Always love and love hard.